Psychology has done extensive studies and found the five priorities in life are as follows
1 breath
2 need for love ( not sex )
3 water
4 food
5 sex
They missed where need for sleep fits in but is most likely between 1 and 2. They are given in the order of preference as per their study
Why am I talking about it ?
Read about a sadhu convicted for rape and sentenced In india
Similar convictions are found in the Church.
Those who are foolish enough to believe they can overcome carnal desire easily are extremely ill informed. It takes much struggle.
The world is rife with such wrong concepts. And wrong sadhus.
Many organizations have such internal corruption that gets suppressed.
People then lose faith in God , organization etc. but God is not at fault. Even ramkrishna struggled for a few seconds and Lahiri Mahashaya struggled for 10 years
Life is a journey to be enjoyed. When is it a journey to be enjoyed ? When your journey leads you back to God. Otherwise it is a path of maya or devil
Bhavin