Most of our faults are hidden. They only come out at right time
Fear. We may think we are not afraid but the moment we see a cop our foot is off the accelerator!
We may feel we have no desire for food. But if your hungry and see your favorite food the appetite comes out like a tiger
same with sex. It takes years and births to get rid of anger, resentment and depression when desires are not fulfilled.
These are normal trends present in all. Slowly and patiently, One must conquer desire – some by fulfilling, others by logic and rest by meditation. Usually a combination is needed.
It is easier to conquer desires with a yogi. They have more control and their guidance and spiritual powers rubs off. Plus they have secret techniques
Bhavin