So , in youth or even till you are about to die – we see someone handsome or beautiful and we start feeling good.
Social obligations may prevent you from actively pursuing that person but nevertheless the thought is there
So why crave the body of another ? Why do you even want to offer your body to another?
If it was the body that you liked – would the same thought process of craving occur it that person you crave was dead. In that case surely it was not the body that you wanted
So what we it ? You can’t say it was really personality – since most of the times portray themselves as nice caring as part of an elaborate plan to be looked. To look good!
Then what did you really want?
To be continued. If there is interest
Bhavin