To love those that love you is easy. To love those that love you not is not so simple. If you want to change anyone, set a better example. Show more kindness, more understanding, more love. That has a sure effect. To those who are not kind, show kindness. To those who are mean, show bigness of heart. –
Paramhansa Yogananda
Divine Romance
However it is very difficult.
Our mind has the habit of getting angry. Revenge. Wishing ill for the wicked. We start by changing on the outside. But once the blanket gets colored by God love, true love shines forth