“Attachment is blinding; it lends an imaginary halo of attractiveness to the object of desire.”
~ Sri Yukteswar Giri
Autobiography of a Yogi
So if you see someone you like. You feel you can’t live without the person. Remember put yourself in the trap
You created as an imaginary halo of appeal to the person
Now you know Why Hollywood is full of divorces and broken relations.
Or everywhere
Same thing with your favorite food. You made it attractive. Ultimately all ingredients, the core – was made by sunlight